Granola2mink, 64

Seeking PlayMate, SoulMate, LifeMate The man I'd like to meet is a kind but firm, gentle but rough, romantic but serious soul who shares my developed sense of well being and comfort on the planet. He's as warm around the campfire as he is cool in a crisis. Looks as good walking away from me in jeans as he does toward me in a tux. He's proven himself to himself, and has nothing to prove to anyone else. He confidently belongs in his own skin, and that just can't be faked. The Litmus Test of our compatibility will be the connection we feel looking into one another’s eyes, and the ease that will keep us there. That defines communication, which is a primary need for me. Others are integrity, self-awareness, intelligence, good looks, high energy, humor, positive attitude, financial security, and socializing with family and friends. I would also enjoy being with someone who wanted to do a lot of outdoor activities together, especially hiking, camping, watersports, generally wearing out backpacks and suitcases...but will also agree that our home is our favorite place to be.